Thanksgiving / Holiday Gathering Conversation Topics!
If you are like me and sometimes struggle to come up with things to talk about with folks I don’t see often, here are some discussion topics that were recently shared with me that could help start conversations, especially with older loved ones to learn their stories:
Who was the most important person in your life? Can you tell me about them?
Who has been the kindest to you in your life?
What are the most important lessons you’ve learned in life?
What is your earliest memory?
Are there any words of wisdom you’d like to share with me?
What are you most proud of in your life?
How has your life been different than what you imagined?
Do you have any regrets?
What does your future hold?
Is there something about me that you’ve always wanted to know, but never asked?
I love that these ask about the past or future, instead of focusing only on the present. Especially after the recent election, when conversations could potentially become heated, perhaps we can find a way to connect with family members and loved ones beyond our current political views, and learn a bit more about what made them into the person they are today.
Happy Holidays to all!
