Have you seen shows before where they make fun of topics like horror bosses, incompetent colleagues and fantasies of burning the business down?
If you find yourself nodding along to these shows, you’re not alone. Many of us share these experiences and thoughts on a daily basis at work. Some may find these shows a cathartic release, while others see them as a comforting reminder that they’re not the only ones feeling this way.
While this sentiment on these shows is not uncommon, the sad reality is that these shows reflect actual situations for some of us. If you ask these people, they would clearly say that they are miserable and hate their jobs.
So, why do many people hate their jobs? There are three major reasons: their bosses, our addiction to getting praised or recognized, and the work itself.
The Boss Is The Reason
Most people who hate their jobs don’t hate the work they do. What they truly hate are their bosses or their immediate superiors.
Bosses or managers are critical to the success of any business and can set the tone for the entire team. Because of this, they can easily make work experience bad for anyone in many different ways.
First, if they are toxic or weak bosses, they won’t be afraid to use their position to bully you and create hostility that would cause you to quit your job. For instance, some bosses may even criticize you behind your back or publicly humiliate you for the most minor mistakes you could make.
Aside from bullying you and not caring about you, a boss can make a person hate their job if they don’t always respect your off-time. It is a given that you should be given time off from work once your work hours are complete. If there is an emergency, then you can be disturbed in your free time to get the issue fixed. But, if your boss continues to ask you to come in even during your break, that is too much. In such cases, it’s important to communicate your boundaries and the importance of work-life balance to your boss.
Some bosses may also make you feel like you are not valued as a person or seen as one at all. Although things can now be automated, some bosses may be very restrictive about what you can do in the office. From reduced bathroom or lunch breaks to the prohibition of any fun activities in the workplace, you will think it is not a healthy workplace.
A boss can make it unbearable for you to stay in the job if their expectations are too unrealistic. For example, they expect you to be 100% invested in everything the business does, even if you aren’t getting paid or your work hours are insufficient for everything they want you to do. In such cases, it’s important to have a candid conversation with your boss about what is feasible and what is not.
You Are Not Praised Enough
Some people say they hate their jobs because they aren’t getting the praise they deserve for their work. Praise is something that has been ingrained in many of us since childhood, as praise means we are liked and have done something good. In work, praise is a sign that our work is validated, and it could lead to career opportunities.
While praise is good, focusing on it too much can cause people to lose focus and become unhappy. Because of this, one may end up hating one’s work even if it is their perfect job.
The Work Is Not Great
While the definition of the “perfect job” is different for everyone, there will be those who genuinely feel like the job is not as great as it seems in person. For instance, their jobs may cause them to feel like their job is repetitive and there’s nothing much for them to do in terms of how they can do something else. Some may even feel their work doesn’t mean anything, even if they are helping people. As a result, many are leaving their jobs and looking for something far more beneficial and exciting.
Whether you’re embarking on your first job or seeking a new opportunity, the prospect of finding a job you won’t hate can be daunting. But with a clear understanding of your criteria and thorough research, you can find a role that not only welcomes you but also makes your work experience truly unique. Remember, the perfect job is out there-take your time to find it!
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